Tuesday, March 15, 2011
Temptation Is Really Imitation
Sunday, March 6, 2011
Love Changes Everything
Reflections
March 6, 2011
When I was in my last year of graduate school, now amazingly twenty years ago, life was hectic. I was serving 29 Palms United Methodist Church full time. Sue had no career option in the high desert that didn’t involve a hair net so she stayed with her company in Orange County and came up on weekends. Our sons were with me or in childcare. I had three semesters of course work left, the last one seemed the toughest. My dad had died the previous November, and I was driving 120 miles, one way, to school...sometimes five days a week. It was especially difficult for an 8:00 AM class. This meant waking my sons at 5:00 AM so I could make class.
One cold and rainy spring morning in March of 1986 we were running just a bit behind schedule. I started the trek to school, only to run over a rock that had washed onto the road causing me to lose a hubcap. I stopped, found the hubcap, pounded it back on getting my hands filthy and skinning a knuckle in the process. As highway 62 turns south heading out of the Morongo Valley, the storm worsened and slowed my journey. I could feel my class slipping away. Finally. I reached interstate 10 and headed west toward Claremont. With the rain still falling, the early morning sun was just peeking through the clouds behind me. Then a marvelous thing happened...a beautiful, full rainbow appeared in front of me, and stranger still it began to rain inside the car. At least I assumed so because my cheeks were wet. I was crying, stopping to compose myself I walked toward the rainbow a few feet pausing to take it in along with the sweetness of the desert air. Back on the road, for as long as I could, I just basked in the glory of that rainbow.
This was B.C.P before cell phones (imagine that) so after class, which I indeed made on time, I called my Mother and shared the story. She said, "when you saw the rainbow you thought of your dad." I said, "how did you know" and she reminded me of how my dad would stop the car on vacations to have us admire rainbows and remind us of the Noah blessing. What makes this significant is that my parents' relatives lived in Pennsylvania and Michigan so the car trips were long and deliberate, dawdling was not on the agenda. Except when there was a rainbow, then dad would stop the car and make sure we all saw it. Several years ago my son Aaron drove his 1969 Plymouth Barracuda to Carlisle Pennsylvania to a national show for Chrysler enthusiasts. I met him in Chicago and drove the twenty-one hundred miles back with him. It was August and we were in the Midwest so there were thunder storms. Somewhere in Iowa there was a big one, but there was also a beautiful rainbow. Aaron stopped and said lets take a good look. So we did. Every time I see a rainbow I think of my dad, because he knew every color in the band across the sky gives us good reason to be glad and hopeful.