REFLECTIONS
November 14, 2010
November 14, 2010
Community is born of the belief that we are not alone in our endeavors. While we may have divergent beliefs, goals, and backgrounds, none of us except religious ascetics or hermits lives in true isolation. From family, to work, school, sport or social clubs and formal religious expression, each brings an element of what community is or can be.
So what is the how, when, and why of community? The how of community begins with the intentional act of looking outside ourselves. Self-care experts tell us the art of selfishness is essential in terms of emotional wholeness and balanced living. Self-centeredness is another matter altogether. Writing on the pitfalls of self-absorption, the poet Longfellow said, "Whenever nature leaves a hole in a person's intellect, she generally plasters it over with a thick coat of self-centeredness." In a similar vein, yet more pointedly, the English cleric, Hare, wrote, “Many people spend their lives gazing at their own shadows, and so dwindle away into shadows thereof.” The modern parlance would be something like, navel gazing gets us nothing but bellybutton fuzz, for which no useful purpose has been found.
We live in a time of individuality and self-reliance so why should we be concerned about community? The spirit of individuals and the soul of society hinges on the notion that we matter both as individuals and as members of a community. When our lives are only about ourselves as individuals, the narrowness of focus can stifle both individual and community. Though all the world’s great religions teach the sacred value of individuals, each teaching, be it Buddhist, Christian, Hinduism, Islamic, Judaic, or Sikh places the higher value on the Holy art of moving beyond one’s self. Stressing the importance of creating kinship, of reaching out in the name of help and hope in concert with and toward others.
The second chapter of James is a call to not just community but a friendship covenant rooted in sacred loving care. If we are to take community seriously, the fundamental operating principle by which we live will then be a conspiracy of kindness. The contagion of such an attitude can warm hearts, but if left unchecked it can light the world.
Dr. Joey K. McDonald
First United Methodist Church
4832 Tujunga Avenue, North Hollywood, CA 91601
First United Methodist Church
4832 Tujunga Avenue, North Hollywood, CA 91601